August 15 - 2005 - ISSN 1715-4219
In this issue.....
>>> First - Sorry I'm Late ......
>>> Hot Products
>>> Pat's Corner "Seven Steps to Romance -
>>>Part 6 - BECOME THE DATE MASTER
>>> Your Opinion Matters
>>> What do you want to see?
>>> Subscription Management
Short Intro...
Welcome to all our new subscribers!
Well folks I am back from holidays and it was great. Wonderful to leave all your cares and concerns behind for a few days. Pretend you are some famous person and just smile a lot. Well it wasn’t quite that easy but it sure was fun. Hope to do it again next year. Anyways okay onto the newsletter.
Well hate to disappoint everyone but I really have not had time to find any great new products to make you more romantic. Will be on the lookout by the next newsletter for some great ones. But we need feedback here let us know what you think of the products we currently have on the site. What you liked about them and even what you disliked about them. And most importantly how they worked for you. And yes please do use the cards and the reminder service there free and very easy to use.
Okay enough said. Soon the final saga on the seven steps to romance will be coming out. So find out the following this week:
- How to plan the perfect date in your mind
- Create that aura of confidence that your date will love
- Visualize your future dating success
- Become the dating star you have always dreamed you could be
And other features as well so take five and read what we’ve got in store for you our loyal clients
Wishing you love and romance,
Patrick Watson
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Pat's Corner "THE SEVEN STEPS TO ROMANCE"
PART SIX - BECOME THE DATE MASTER
STEP SIX out of seven hope you are still with me. On to our last letter the big A in the CBA approach to dating. As this is a big topic I have split this into two parts to help make it easier to take in. Well the A as is as some of you may have guessed is ACHIEVE. That’s right let’s now get you to achieve your dating success. Sounds good I hope so cause that’s what we are trying to do here.
Okay plans have been made now its time to achieve them. Are those butterfly’s floating around out there in your stomach. Okay lets work on now to let your concerns and worries go and become the successful dater that lurks inside of you.
Internally you have conceived it is possible for you to be a star in the world of dating.
- You can see it happening
- Your mind is now telling you that it can happen
- So now we just have to believe
- Now lets go achieve that success
Okay to achieve this success means you arm yourself with confidence. That’s right confidence in yourself and your success. We will soon be doing a report for you on confidence and how to increase yours. Its going to be a biggie so don’t go away as it will be coming out soon.
Now once again we want to visualize the dating process and just how are you going to ask this person out. Well what better way then to send them a date card from our wide selection of dating cards. I know what you are saying you might not yet have their email address. So tell them you have found something really neat on the internet and want to show it to them. Sounds innocent doesn’t it.
Okay now lets send them a card and let them know that you are interested. Really its not that scary is it after all. Its just a card letting them know that you are interested in getting to know them a little better. I am betting if there is any attraction at all they will be quite pleased to receive it.
Okay for you bolder folk flowers are a great opener as well. Yes ladies for you male friends as well. What man wouldn’t appreciate a set of flowers well maybe a few sweets wouldn’t hurt either with it. Now its time to move onto the finer points of the plan of the date. By the way for the males out there in doubt check out our latest product Romance the mystery revealed for men on our web site. Its filled with great ideas on how to make your date more successful.
Now its time to go into planning mode so lets think about what would make your date happy. This is where you hopefully have been listening and maybe even taking some notes on what they have been saying to you. What is it they like to do. For instance they have told you they like to go sightseeing. So how about arrange for a hot air balloon ride for the two of you. They will definitely not forget that date for a long time. I can assure you of that.
Now I know what you may be saying but gee whiz I just can’t afford that. Okay then how about if they mentioned they like to have Starbucks coffee to get them going. How about either buying them a tim of Starbucks coffee for a present for them., or suggesting meeting at Starbucks on a Friday night for a coffee. Remember often times the simpler the date the easier it is to arrange it.
I hope you are now getting the idea here. The key being to focus in on what makes your dating partner happy. By now you should have talked to them a few times and have learned some of the things they like to do. This is vital knowledge to ensure your date goes well. Cause if it doesn’t what is the chance of having a second date probably very slim if not zero. AM I RIGHT THERE OR WHAT?
So lets really work on this at this point. Going back to the CBA approach to dating. We first of conceived of our success dating. That means you have to think it is possible to have a successful date. I know from experience how hard this can be after going through a painful divorce.
But I somehow got back on my feet and told myself that I still have something to offer the world and my next date and I did it. If I did it you can too.
The next step is to believe that you can do it as well. Conception and belief are both in the mind. Often the toughest battles you will ever fight are in your own mind. I for one know that is true for me.
The last step we are now taking is to achieve your goal. ACTION ACTION ACTION there is no excuse of action. Cause if you just think about it well nothing is ever going to happen. There’s an old saying and ladies don’t take this the wrong way but here it is: “A timid heart never went to bed with a beautiful woman”.
If you think about it well it kind of makes sense. It takes action to succeed in this game and that’s it. Okay so in our next session we will go over some scenarios to help you succeed with your date no matter what you do.
God bless and the best of luck in finding lady or gentlemen love cause it’s really out there you just gotta go find it.
On that note a little poem for all you lost souls
What difference do I make
What smiles can I take
What touch can I offer
What gentleness you see do I hide from thee
Is my heart ready to love again
Or will I just shrivel up and let it die
The choice be only yours you see
So what will it be lonely or possible love lasting an eternity?
P. S. Once again as I mentioned before I am not an English major so remember the grammar may indeed not be perfect but as long as you are getting the message that’s what counts.
Patrick Watson
The Spiritual Guru of Dating
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Patrick Watson
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